wow… doesn’t it sound exciting… *roll eyes + puking*
if it’s a holiday tour then I would say yes, it will be a very exciting one. but too bad that it’s for work, which I can already foresee working round the clock (tick tock tick tock) with sleepless nights.
so ladies and gentlemen, now I present you my tour itinerary…..
Manila, Philippines – 25th to 29th May
Taipei, Taiwan – 5th to 9th June
Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam – 12th to 16th June
Bangkok, Thailand – 19th to 23rd June
Colombo, Sri Lanka – 5th to 9th July
Dubai, UAE – 9th to 14th July
Jakarta, Indonesia – 17th to 21st July
Singapore – 27th to 31st July
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia – 31st July to 3rd August
how exciting rite? *sarcastic grin* so don’t blame me for MIA for the following 2 to 3 months ok… not my fault…
here’s a part of a funny msn chat with Kitty today that cheers me up (slightly, at least for that moment):
jamie~morning +ve boost says:
i hate my life…. i seriously hate the lifestyle i’m living now….
kiKkY says:
i don't even have a life, how to style lei….
jamie~morning +ve boost says:
wahahaha…. u r freaking funny la….
kiKkY says:
HAHAHA
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Saturday, April 17, 2010
it has 2 syllabus & sounds like may-rage
isn’t it too obvious? yes, you may have guessed it right! the word is ‘marriage’.
let’s see what’s the definition of marriage. according to Oxford dictionary, marriage means the formal union of a man and a woman, by which they become husband and wife. but how do I define marriage? simple. a bond by law.
me and the boys managed to catch a movie, date night, on a mid weekday nite. it’s a very funny movie about a married couple trying to spice up their relationship. it definitely does make me laugh my heart out but no doubt it does have a sense of reality in the storyline. quarter way through the movie while it was showing the ugly side of a marriage (you know… divorces, mundane routines, stupid arguments and so on so forth), Kent purposely teased Hoe (who is actually 2 seats away) that this is what he is going to be expecting soon. a married life, a boring life. I do not agree with that totally as I still do believe that there are still happy marriages around the world. however I did participated, sort of teasing Hoe too. I think he might be slightly offended and he challenged me with a question, 'don’t I want to get married?'. I can tell you for now, I surely do not want to get married (at least not in the near future). but I never answer his question as I felt nothing is certain in this world. maybe if one day I am so blindly in love and I’m willing to give more than what I receive, I might just say ‘yes, I do’ to marriage.
just today, I was hanging out with the gals over long lunch break and as usual catching up and bitching about life. they both told me a very shocking news. both their fathers are having affairs. one with a widow of two adult children. another one with a young malay lady and just recently gave birth to a baby girl. when I heard this news, I was speechless… I was in real shock. I was naïve enough to think that this will only happen in drama or someone’s cousin’s friend’s father, someone who doesn’t exist in my life. I am sorry that I didn’t say anything that could calm you both down. I can see the disappointment, the anger, the sad, the ache, the gave-up spirit in both your eyes and I seriously do feel your pain. I really do but I just don’t know what to say except I feel really sorry for what has happened and sorry for not being by both of you when these ugly situations happened (now, I have even more reasons for hating my last few months attachment).
if you are my blog follower, I’m sure you have read something about my godbro did something shameful that hurts all his loved ones around him. yes, I am ashamed to say it out loud that he had an affair. an affair with another girl out there. I really couldn’t understand what’s on his mind. his wife is still one super hot mama but maybe just not as crazily outgoing as she used to be anymore (I couldn’t blame her for that as she’s a mother to a 3-year-old son). and yet, he just couldn’t be contented with what he has and did something disgraceful that almost break his family. I salute his wife for taking the pain and giving him the second chance and I have definitely change my perception towards my once-dearly-respected godbro. I hope the choice of them moving back to Ipoh to try mending the marriage will turn out good. I certainly do not wish they will be a part of the divorce statistics.
now, you tell me what is marriage? if you say marriage is the prove of how much you love each other, then tell me how do you measure it? I always believe that as long as you love each other, as long as you are committed to each other, as long as you know each other’s needs, as long as you both have the same life aspirations, you don’t need a marriage to prove it. as I mentioned, a bond by law that both has to obey or face the penalty if fail to oblige. after all, you don’t have to prove to anyone in the world but yourself how much you love him or her. I would love to be in love, I would love to be loved but certainly marriage is not the answer to my love. growing up in a typical family that has arguments over financial stuff and petty stuff, it does much or less leads me to not believing in marriage. don’t get me wrong, I do love my family very much although it has flaws and I know it’s a part and parcel of how a family grows fonder and stronger. just that I choose not to live my life or love someone like how most people are expected to do. I want to live my live my kind of way, love someone my own unique way.
let love keep the world revolving :)
let’s see what’s the definition of marriage. according to Oxford dictionary, marriage means the formal union of a man and a woman, by which they become husband and wife. but how do I define marriage? simple. a bond by law.
me and the boys managed to catch a movie, date night, on a mid weekday nite. it’s a very funny movie about a married couple trying to spice up their relationship. it definitely does make me laugh my heart out but no doubt it does have a sense of reality in the storyline. quarter way through the movie while it was showing the ugly side of a marriage (you know… divorces, mundane routines, stupid arguments and so on so forth), Kent purposely teased Hoe (who is actually 2 seats away) that this is what he is going to be expecting soon. a married life, a boring life. I do not agree with that totally as I still do believe that there are still happy marriages around the world. however I did participated, sort of teasing Hoe too. I think he might be slightly offended and he challenged me with a question, 'don’t I want to get married?'. I can tell you for now, I surely do not want to get married (at least not in the near future). but I never answer his question as I felt nothing is certain in this world. maybe if one day I am so blindly in love and I’m willing to give more than what I receive, I might just say ‘yes, I do’ to marriage.
just today, I was hanging out with the gals over long lunch break and as usual catching up and bitching about life. they both told me a very shocking news. both their fathers are having affairs. one with a widow of two adult children. another one with a young malay lady and just recently gave birth to a baby girl. when I heard this news, I was speechless… I was in real shock. I was naïve enough to think that this will only happen in drama or someone’s cousin’s friend’s father, someone who doesn’t exist in my life. I am sorry that I didn’t say anything that could calm you both down. I can see the disappointment, the anger, the sad, the ache, the gave-up spirit in both your eyes and I seriously do feel your pain. I really do but I just don’t know what to say except I feel really sorry for what has happened and sorry for not being by both of you when these ugly situations happened (now, I have even more reasons for hating my last few months attachment).
if you are my blog follower, I’m sure you have read something about my godbro did something shameful that hurts all his loved ones around him. yes, I am ashamed to say it out loud that he had an affair. an affair with another girl out there. I really couldn’t understand what’s on his mind. his wife is still one super hot mama but maybe just not as crazily outgoing as she used to be anymore (I couldn’t blame her for that as she’s a mother to a 3-year-old son). and yet, he just couldn’t be contented with what he has and did something disgraceful that almost break his family. I salute his wife for taking the pain and giving him the second chance and I have definitely change my perception towards my once-dearly-respected godbro. I hope the choice of them moving back to Ipoh to try mending the marriage will turn out good. I certainly do not wish they will be a part of the divorce statistics.
now, you tell me what is marriage? if you say marriage is the prove of how much you love each other, then tell me how do you measure it? I always believe that as long as you love each other, as long as you are committed to each other, as long as you know each other’s needs, as long as you both have the same life aspirations, you don’t need a marriage to prove it. as I mentioned, a bond by law that both has to obey or face the penalty if fail to oblige. after all, you don’t have to prove to anyone in the world but yourself how much you love him or her. I would love to be in love, I would love to be loved but certainly marriage is not the answer to my love. growing up in a typical family that has arguments over financial stuff and petty stuff, it does much or less leads me to not believing in marriage. don’t get me wrong, I do love my family very much although it has flaws and I know it’s a part and parcel of how a family grows fonder and stronger. just that I choose not to live my life or love someone like how most people are expected to do. I want to live my live my kind of way, love someone my own unique way.
let love keep the world revolving :)
Monday, April 12, 2010
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I so wanted to write about our weekend getaway to Cameron Highlands as I really did enjoyed myself but I just couldn't. I guess I'll just have to do it some other time...
unconciously, there was quite a bit of thinking during the weekend break and now, I am oh-so tangle-minded.
need some time to sort my thoughts out. til then.............
unconciously, there was quite a bit of thinking during the weekend break and now, I am oh-so tangle-minded.
need some time to sort my thoughts out. til then.............
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
it’s been quite long...
since the last time I blogged. it was 2 months back. oh my god... what has happened? I seriously got no idea. yeah, the usual crap... busy with work, catching up with my life back in KL...
since the last time I updated my resume. yes, I’ve been quite demotivated with my current work lately. I guess I need a change. I hope it’s a change for good. I have not been actively looking for job yet. slacking a bit to enjoy with my personal life in my comfort zone. oh dear Jamie, buck up! get alive, get a change!
since the last time I enjoyed being at home (or more specifically, in my room). been spending almost the past half year in someone’s room. no no no, don’t get me wrong ok… been hectically traveling for work between Singapore and Jakarta and home is just like my stop over. it definitely does feel great that I can finally laze on my bed while flipping thru Amy Tan’s and my stereo playing my fav Buble and Ingrid.
since the last time I puked! and what more, exactly on my last twenties of my birthday. it was definitely an evil plan of the buddies. the pre-puke was fine but the post-puke was horrible. had a bad hangover the next day but I can’t disappoint Nicolas for a full hearted brunch followed by a high cholesterol seafood dinner with my family and then leaded to a fine wine sessions with my wii-kaki. thanks all for the great company on my big day.
since the last time I’m determined to cut off some weight. I’ve been growing horizontal ridiculously coz frankly speaking, I’ve got no time and no energy for a good work out. and also a big part of my own fault is I just ‘hentam’ anything into my dear mouth. so yes, today is the day that I had started the regime. no, I didn’t make it for a jog today but at least my calories didn’t exceed 1000 for today.
i love my life....
since the last time I updated my resume. yes, I’ve been quite demotivated with my current work lately. I guess I need a change. I hope it’s a change for good. I have not been actively looking for job yet. slacking a bit to enjoy with my personal life in my comfort zone. oh dear Jamie, buck up! get alive, get a change!
since the last time I enjoyed being at home (or more specifically, in my room). been spending almost the past half year in someone’s room. no no no, don’t get me wrong ok… been hectically traveling for work between Singapore and Jakarta and home is just like my stop over. it definitely does feel great that I can finally laze on my bed while flipping thru Amy Tan’s and my stereo playing my fav Buble and Ingrid.
since the last time I puked! and what more, exactly on my last twenties of my birthday. it was definitely an evil plan of the buddies. the pre-puke was fine but the post-puke was horrible. had a bad hangover the next day but I can’t disappoint Nicolas for a full hearted brunch followed by a high cholesterol seafood dinner with my family and then leaded to a fine wine sessions with my wii-kaki. thanks all for the great company on my big day.
since the last time I’m determined to cut off some weight. I’ve been growing horizontal ridiculously coz frankly speaking, I’ve got no time and no energy for a good work out. and also a big part of my own fault is I just ‘hentam’ anything into my dear mouth. so yes, today is the day that I had started the regime. no, I didn’t make it for a jog today but at least my calories didn’t exceed 1000 for today.
i love my life....
Sunday, January 17, 2010
homeland or fine city?
I am indeed very happy today becoz I have visitors from homeland. yes, DinDin and Sam had finally made it here to visit me since they had been talking bout it long ago way back at November 2009 haha… and the double joy is that finally we managed to catch up with SK! we talked and talked and talked all the way through shopping, dinner, strolling and coffee. there are so much more for us to chat. and one of the major topics is working in Singapore...
SK has been working here since 4 years back and has planned to settle down here as well. as for my case, I’m just temporarily sited here for few months (suppose 3 months but now it’s gonna be 4+ months and hope nothing beyond that anymore).
few years back when I had my first work attachment here (when I thought being out of KL is something new and fun), I was convinced by Terry to work here for permanently. but that convincing didn’t work when I realized I do get homesick dearly.
later through the years, I was again convinced to think about it again since working here is nothing new to me anymore (but this time, it was Terry’s mum who was trying instead). however, I dropped the idea yet again becoz I still couldn’t get use to adjusting my lifestyle here although I do not get that much of homesick anymore.
now ever since I started bitching bout getting bored of my current company to Jimmy, he gave me his two cents worth of advice. since I have working experience here handling private and government sector clients, I definitely do have advantage if I would like to seek new job here. and so happen that Steve can recommend me to work in a publishing company here if I’m interested to try. but I had rejected as I am really not ready yet (at least at this point of time).
today while hanging out with my dear friends, SK and DinDin think I should really consider hard to work here permanently too although they also understand my situation that it’s hard for me to let go everything I’m comfortable of back in KL. after listening to their reasons and motivations, I kinda have 50-50 feeling again.
should I or should I not? to reconsider to work here… I really can’t make up my mind with this mix feeling that I have inside. too much to evaluate, too much to weigh… hmmm, maybe I should get a stalk of daisy and pluck the petals to decide my future :P
SK has been working here since 4 years back and has planned to settle down here as well. as for my case, I’m just temporarily sited here for few months (suppose 3 months but now it’s gonna be 4+ months and hope nothing beyond that anymore).
few years back when I had my first work attachment here (when I thought being out of KL is something new and fun), I was convinced by Terry to work here for permanently. but that convincing didn’t work when I realized I do get homesick dearly.
later through the years, I was again convinced to think about it again since working here is nothing new to me anymore (but this time, it was Terry’s mum who was trying instead). however, I dropped the idea yet again becoz I still couldn’t get use to adjusting my lifestyle here although I do not get that much of homesick anymore.
now ever since I started bitching bout getting bored of my current company to Jimmy, he gave me his two cents worth of advice. since I have working experience here handling private and government sector clients, I definitely do have advantage if I would like to seek new job here. and so happen that Steve can recommend me to work in a publishing company here if I’m interested to try. but I had rejected as I am really not ready yet (at least at this point of time).
today while hanging out with my dear friends, SK and DinDin think I should really consider hard to work here permanently too although they also understand my situation that it’s hard for me to let go everything I’m comfortable of back in KL. after listening to their reasons and motivations, I kinda have 50-50 feeling again.
should I or should I not? to reconsider to work here… I really can’t make up my mind with this mix feeling that I have inside. too much to evaluate, too much to weigh… hmmm, maybe I should get a stalk of daisy and pluck the petals to decide my future :P
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