there’s only 1 way 2 say 3 words 4 u

and does it really have to be on facebook???

no doubt that facebook is the one of the greatest media invention connecting people from long lost friends to strangers that would like to meet new friends. but I also felt that more and more people are ‘exploiting’ this great invention.

ever since the new facelift, quizzes are growing like mushrooms and many people are participating too. it has quizzes from ‘what is your iq & eq’ to ‘what wedding dress suits you best’. this guy friend of mine has recently taken the ‘what is your best age to get married’ quiz but at least he’s smart enough not to post the answer of that quiz (only smart people can be my friend ok hehe...) and guess what? his less-than-a-year girlfriend commented on that post asking ‘so when are we getting married then?’... after reading that comment, I was practically ‘rolling my eyes’.

few weeks later, that girlfriend of his written on his facebook wall saying ‘dear, go and take a look at rachel’s wedding photo. it’s so sweet… I wish ours will be that sweet too’. and he replied ‘I’m busy now, let’s do it next time.’ after reading that, I again ‘rolled my eyes’ with a sarcastic smile on my face.

just today, she superpoked him with ‘will you marry me?’ and he commented on the superpoke saying ‘haha… of course’ and then she replied ‘you must say I do’. this time after reading that, I feel nauseous. hello... come on lady, what do you expect your boyfriend to say? no? (again *roll eye*)

don’t get me wrong, I am totally so not jealous. just that I know this guy very well for more than 4 years and in fact we almost became an item. but we didn’t because we both want different things in life and we are grown up that know we are just not meant to be together.

of course you can get lovey dovey but can’t you just do it over a private conversation or at least sms? why does it have to be on the facebook? trying to show your affection to the whole world? or as what another friend of mine says they just want to share? I grow up being taught to respect others’ privacy but I have a question now. how do I respect others’ privacy when they share everything they own with the rest of the world?

maybe I am just too realistic but I think I’m a very romantic lover too (asks my ex-es, I’m sure they agree more than I do). but still, I will definitely not announce my love on the facebook and what more, pressuring my boyfriend regarding marriage over the facebook.

obviously, this guy is not my blog reader or else I would not dare to post this entry. if you feel annoyed by my babbling here then…. I don’t know, not that I really care…

anyway, this is just purely what I felt and you are more than welcome to disagree with me. but hey, I would really love to know what you guys think? enlighten me with your opinion…

wiikend not...

supposingly to hang out at Kelvino’s place on Saturday for another round of wii game but he has urgent matter to attend last minute thus it was called off. well, I was quite disappointed at first but it’s alrite coz I ended up doing shopping the whole day with my mum and both my sis. I wanted to get a pair of sport shoes but I think fate just doesn’t allow it to happen. it’s either too expensive for my budget or it doesn’t have my size... frustrating...

ended Saturday night at home resting on my bed reading ‘To Kill a Mockingbird’ while sipping 7eleven’s slurpee... I must say the person who invented 7eleven’s slurpee is one of the geniuses alongside with Einstein or Newton or whatsoever scientists hehe...

Sunday morning, I woke up with a very bad mood due to the weather. it was so hot that I couldn’t continue to slumber and was forced to wake up at 930am. gosh... 930am on a Sunday morning!!! that’s really awful...

had some light breakfast and while flipping through the Sunday newspaper, I was already starting to sweat. I just couldn’t take it anymore and decided to go for a swimming session myself although Jen couldn’t join me.

packed my stuff and halfway out to head to the pool, Kelvino called to make up for yesterday’s ‘fly kite’ hoping we can have a wii session today. without second thought, I agreed and volunteered to drop by at baskin robbin’s to get a pile of ice cream.

parked my car at visitor’s parking and while I was making my way to his place, I felt like as if I’m melting like a delicate ice cream. I am seriously not joking, the weather is really that hot! once I reached his place, I just slouched on the sofa right in front of the aircond and refused to move an inch haha...

instead of wii session, we ended up dipping by his swimming pool as I really think it’s a bad idea to sweat over a wii game on this kinda hot weather. after hours of dipping (causing our skin to look even more wrinkled than a 100 years old man), we headed back to his place to trash on the big bucket of ice cream that I bought earlier. Kelvino is kind enough to make an effort to make some pancakes to serve with the ice cream and a big jug of homemade ice lemon tea to soothe our ‘hottiness’ (I did help out a bit in doing the preparation ok...)

while chatting and chilling out with ice cream pancake on one hand and ice lemon tea on the other hand, I spotted his green invitation postcard lying on the table. it is an invitation card to the ‘Heineken Music presents Impulse: A Junk Music Project’. I read the description of the party and it actually has some connectivity to my work (3D visuals projections, audio visual synchronization and multimedia experiential). I am indeed very interested to go and voila, Kelvino will be my partner of the night (actually I forced him to bring me along hehe...)

although I didn’t manage to feed my hunger for wii but it's alrite coz I definitely did enjoy myself over the weekend and I am now looking forward to our date this Friday :P you guys out there who is interested (you can refer to above link), come and join me at the party...

it’s killing me softly...

no... it’s not with his song but the weather... it’s really getting on my nerves and I’m getting more and more irritated... why does it always have to be like this?? cloudy weekday morning but super duper oven toast weather on the weekend???

arrgghh… it’s damn annoying!!!


can you believe it that I really actually put ice into my bath tub to cool me down... gosh... ciao, it’s icy bath time now...

back on track

if I’m not mistaken, I have not been to the gym since end of last year. besides being lack of determination, the main reason was my work. I’ve been getting off work average 10pm everyday since last year November. can you imagine how exhausted I was and you can’t blame me for giving up my gym routine and the time to watch my diet. no doubt, the consequence of such lifestyle has lead me to expand ‘horizontally’!!!

and now since I am ‘free-er’, I forced myself to get back on the right track. it is really tough to kickstart this lazy ass of mine but I still got it done today.

I started my morning as usual with a cup of chocolate anlene milk and later snack on green apple. Then came lunch time, at first I thought of skipping lunch but my colleague just came back from Las Vegas and he has a lot to share with us so I can’t be possibly getting left out. ok... looking through the menu, I kept reminding myself to watch my calories intake. guess what's for my lunch today? I had a bowl of clear soup glass noodle with vege and tofu. I know... it sounds unappetizing rite??? and some of my colleagues said it looks like food for sick people too but surprisingly it tastes good and I didn’t regret ordering that.

tick tock tick tock... great... it was already 6pm then. faster finished up some final touch on my work then I headed to the gym. it was not as dreadful as I thought it will be and I was in fact very motivated bcoz there is a new hi-tech treadmill in my gym... hooray... I tried to hit back my 400 calories regime but I failed. I pushed so hard but my heart and brain are telling me to stop pushing. ok fine, maybe I need some time to obtain back that metabolism hence I finally settled with 300 calories burnt.

reached home about 1030pm and now am having my favorite bowl of vege soup and some taugeh too while writing this entry... yummy... and I am so proud of myself that I manage to get myself to do it hehe... okla, nothing impressive but at least I’m proud of myself for today lor :)